Sunday, August 2, 2009

育儿随笔


两个小瓜向来长得都不肥胖,甚至有点瘦屑,因此有些忧心。但三岁小瓜最近却特别大吃,刚喝完奶不久一转眼又吵着要喝。饭粥也吃得比之前多。这倒把我们给乐坏了。能看到孩子们有胃口吃得多是一件赏心乐事。

小瓜胃口大了,身体很快的就稍微圆股起来,抱住他也觉得有点坠手。也许是吃得多,活动也比平时多了。看着他蹦蹦跳跳爬高爬低,觉得心怡。

九岁女儿有点好玩爱幻想。跟爸爸说她希望每个拜六礼拜可以每天有三十个小时。拜一到拜五则最好每天只有五小时。有时又跟爸爸说她要爸爸开一间书店,他每天可以带很多书和文具去学校。这叫童言童语吧。

在女儿四岁左右,我们就开始实施民主。所谓民主,就是每当在外用餐时,我们就轮流决定选择在哪用餐。孰料女儿十之八九都选择麦当劳,肯德基或比萨等快餐之类的,并且超爱吃薯条,气坏民主家长。这些食品偶尔吃没关系,若时常吃却有点不放心。经过常年累月的解说,女儿终于明白,当然还是爱吃,但却不再那么频繁了。

8 comments:

  1. Democracy is for people above 18, right?

    But of course, too many dos and don'ts can kill a kid's creativity.

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  2. kids always eat a lot and play a lot too...

    dont worry whether they r fat or skinny now... when become adult, they will care their appearance.

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  3. i like the way you have that "democracy system", it shows respect to the children, albeit you'll still advice they cannot have fast food each and every time.. hahaha!! :)

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  4. 旧时代说,吃的是福。
    新新人类说,吃的简单、健康和营养才是福。
    当然,偶尔来一餐快餐解谗,也是应该。
    你家的娃娃照片很美!

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  5. khengsiong,
    Yes, the idea is not to kill the idea and creativity of the kids...

    Wois,
    Thanks for the advice. Health is the most important regardless of fat or skinny...

    SK,
    Sometimes it is just not possible to have full democracy. Certain guidance is still required...

    Mei Teng,
    Thanks for the compliment....

    布莱恩,
    同意,健康和营养才是福。谢谢赞美。。。

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  6. 單吃就有夠煩的了
    小瓜當然喜歡吃零食啦

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  7. 龙猫,
    这是一堂课呀,烦会被扣分的。呵呵。。。

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